Pretend Normal

It is so frustrating and confusing dealing with someone who keeps rewriting history. They rewrite it to absolve themselves of liability or accountability. If you try to reason with them, they talk in circles to confuse you or withdraw all together. I used to call it "plausible deniability",   if he refuses to converse then he doesnt have to remember which lie he told, and when. 

I used to think he changed after being with her. But he never changed. He just took off the mask. No one does what he did and is innocent. No one sneaks around and acts deceptively like he does and is moral. No one plays the self serving game of character and is good. No. When you meet such covert evil such as this, you doubt yourself, you wonder how they got past your radar. Because they are VERY good at what they do. 

And thats how they destroy you.