Dear Debra Owens Galvin. All his lines (when Harry Met Sally) KTD, songs, restaurants, pet names, jokes, movies and books...he did with me. I was there before anyone. So you may think you are making new memories but they are recycled. He doesn't do new material. In fact, that was a joke between us, that he needed new writers. He isn't that clever. He claimed you as his soulmate. He's leveling with you. He is telling you how awful I was. How I didn't satisfy him. How hard he tried. How his mom and brothers ADORE you. How he finally feels complete. He is using all the lines he used with me...that I watched him use with Angela, Lisa, Christine, Patti and the others who weren't important enough to remember their names. I was there through ALL of them. I should have seen it but I was too in love with him to see it. Until I couldn't not see it. It will happen with you. You broke TWO marriages to be together. He can't be alone. He dropped a 48 year relationship to be with you. He turned away from his daughter and disowned her to be with you. I'm just thankful you are too old to have kids so that you don't bring another innocent soul into this horror show you are in.
As for me? I am thankful to be out of that mess. The financial lies and mishandling. The lack of loyalty. The mental manipulation. The inability to accept accountability. Have at it. You will lose everything. He is selfish that way.
Right now you think you hit the jackpot. He lives with mommy. He bought a car with over 120k miles on it and financed it with double digit interest rate for 5 years. He has nothing. But he will take all of yours while pretending to be the world's best guy. Until you challenge him or his mommy on something. Until you question him. Until you see it's all a facade. Then you will be discarded and thrown out. When you are too old to be fun he will trade you in.
Good luck. Yes. Im sure you are the one to change him. Yes. You ARE different. Yes. You are the one.
I get it. I thought so too.
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