She took it off her finger, now it doesn't mean a thing

The day I found out about the affair in January of 2019, I took off my wedding ring, but still wore my engagement ring.  I wore it because #1.  It had my mom's stone in it, and #2. Engagements hold hope. After 5 years of asking for vow renewals and being told no, I never put it back on. 

He on the other hand never took his ring off. At least, not until I filed the Order of Protection because he was getting very aggressive toward me.  See, HE filed for divorce.  Even after he did that, he didn't take his ring off.  But boy did he make a production of it when he did.  Told me that once I had filed the OP, there was no reason to wear it anymore, he was done with me. 

Um, excuse me?  You're going to put that guilt on me that you finally took your ring off?  The fact that you had multiple affairs and filed for divorce wasn't enough reason?  The fact that you had given up on us YEARS before I found out about your many affairs wasn't enough?  Oh, no.  That's right.  You have to keep up appearances that you are a great father and husband so that your new supply will think I'm the batshit crazy one and you are the jackpot. 

Typical Narcissist.  Side step any accountability in favor of shifting the blame and guilt onto someone else. 

She took it off her finger, now it doesn't mean a thing

This diamond ring doesn't shine for me anymore

And this diamond ring doesn't mean what it meant before